Process Vs Outcome!!!

Its has been quite some time, since i last talk on the phone for about 4hrs plus with ru yuan last night... Especially during the upsading week that had just passed... Anyway, we discussed lotsa of unsual topic that is soooo crazy and weird... Lol... What's more during the talk, ru yuan suddenly asked me why some people are concern with celebrating their birthday and getting an present... The question shoot so well at that time.. And i came out with a logic... Ok.. for my case, i actually not really care what i get. But what i care about is the amount of effort spent on the process of getting the birthday party done... The process include; sincerely taking some precious time off and go shop for the gift, the determination it had, the amount of time spent on it and the effort to plan something cool... My memories include; Yong xin, Pei kee and Jas Q., my closest buddy... i still remember 2years back, they were trying to get me a levi shirt that is not cheap, the point is that OG do not have my size, so they were soooo determined to get that for me, they took the extra effort to go to disturb the sale girl to check where in orchard have an XL for that shirt, then they rush to CK tangs to grab it... Thats is surely some effort that it is always an precious memories to keep... Another thing is ru yuan; everytime i recieved a gift from her i felt so touch, the jizsaw puzzles, the sunglasses and etc... The time she spent on making the puzzles are the memories and effort that i always remember... Next, Grace and Yong Xin, both of them meet up and go shop for sock kee and wai yeung birthday gift... From orchard to suntec, the time and effort they spent on getting the gift and also the extra creativity spent on picking a card that have bikini girl on cover for wai yueng... Thats all somethings that most of us often missed or forget... I can say that i am good at it... I am of shit toward it and i am still learning it... Actually, throughout my years celebrating birthday for my buddies, i always felt guilty agianst grace and kristi and jasmine and wai yueng.... I often did not do a good job for it... And i often tried and it still failed sooooo bad... Damn it... Anyway, do we always feel fun in celebrating birthday???? I felt sooo... And it include; Me smashing Kristi face onto a cake. Grace, Wy, Kristi and me taking the madagascar photo at cinley leisure.. Me corinne yongxin peikee, trying to take a photo of us jumping outside the supreme court... Me corinne yongxin peikee ruyuan trying to find a lighter to light up the cake at the esplanade, and also being chased by the guard as they are closing... These are memories... True memories..

Next it also bring me to a point... We 13 people are close buddies and because we are buddies, we often care for each other, so we will nag and say things that are wrong... You think: If u go to ur poly friend who u only know for 1/2 year and u say something like; hey you look weird in this hairstyle... What do u think he/she will say??? Hahaha... Its because we care that is why we bother to say about that someone... Its because we think that the person is important, thats is why we bother to nag and scold that someone... Its up to how u think it to be... Its becos we are sooooo close till we are easy to talk with... Hope people can really understand it... Tks.... I tried to make things straight to the point...


Thats is what i feel for the day... If its too long then i am so sorry.. Haha... So lets learn somethings today: " Its the process that counts, not the outcome!!!"